NEW SMYRNA BEACH -- Mary
Forester gets e-mails that
say things like "for a few
days it was a soldiers' orgy
of pogey bait gluttony
around here."
"I don't even know what
pogey bait means," said the
45-year-old New Smyrna Beach
resident through her smile.
For almost three years,
such e-mails have been a
regular occurrence for
Forester. She has become a
welcome name on a package or
e-mail addressed to a
soldier serving overseas in
Iraq or Afghanistan,
providing a few items of
comfort or voice from home.
And as the war on terrorism
enters its fifth year this
week, the rail-thin Marine
mom has no intention of
stopping.
Forester's crusade began
when her eldest son, Matt, a
Marine, was stationed in
Iraq in June 2004.
He would ask her for
things the soldiers could
not get in the combat zone
-- not only comfort items
like candy, socks or baby
wipes, but unusual things
like boot insoles, black
duct tape and carabiners.
"I knew if he needed
things there would be other
troops that were not getting
things from their families,"
she said. So the owner of
her own cleaning business
started collecting items,
boxing them up and shipping
them out.
When Matt came home in
2005, Forester did not stop.
She continued providing
items to the troops,
including sending a trailer
filled with supplies to his
unit when it was stationed
in New Orleans after
Hurricane Katrina.
Word spread and soldiers
would learn about Forester's
efforts, either through her
MySpace Web site, or word of
mouth, and would seek her
out.
She has provided items to
units in Afghanistan, to
troops in military surgical
hospitals on front lines in
Baghdad, and across the war
zone.
"I get requests ranging
from contact lens cleaning
solution to bikini posters,"
she said. One respondent
named Dan asked for a week
off in the Dominican
Republic.
Forester estimates, with
the help of many local
groups and individuals who
have donated items, money
and other assistance, she
has touched the lives of
more than 2,000 troops by
shipping thousands of pounds
of goodies to them --
although she admits there is
no real way to tell how many
people may have gotten one
of her care packages or how
much she has spend sending
them.
The work has not gone
unnoticed. Forester said she
has become close to some of
the soldiers who have
benefited from her largesse.
They exchange emails and on
occasion meet when one gets
home.
One soldier, Staff Sgt.
Shane Witcher, sent Forester
an e-mail about the arrival
of 20 boxes to his unit
stationed in Afghanistan.
"It was like Christmas
around here," he wrote of
distributing the goodies to
his troops. "Even I was
surprised at how excited the
troops got. I just sat back
with a big smile on my face
and watched the show."
"People will feel the
effects of your hard work
and good deeds," Witcher
added.
Reading such thank-yous
bring tears to Forester's
eyes.
"It feels good trying to
do something for someone,"
she said. "I am just trying
to let them know I
appreciate what they are
doing."
While Forester says she
will continue to send
comfort items overseas, she
has expanded her efforts,
joining Operation Helmet in
its crusade to provide
upgrades for combat helmets.
The organization, which
was started by a retired
Navy doctor whose grandson
was in the Marines, provides
insert pads for helmets
designed to enhance
protection for the wearer
from blunt-force trauma
caused by things like
explosions from IEDs.
"The goodies make them
comfortable," Forester said.
"The pads can save their
lives."
For this mother of two,
whose younger son wants to
follow in his big brother's
footsteps, sending a few
packages overseas is the
least she can do for those
serving their country.
"The longer the war goes
on the more people have
become immune to it,"
Forester said. "I feel I
need to do my part because
they are over there doing
their part."
mark.johnson@news-jrnl.com
Anyone wishing to help
Forester with her efforts or
to get more information
about sending items to
soldiers overseas can call
her at (386) 427-6784 or
e-mail maryforester@earthlink.net.